Less is more!
Thanks for
joining me today for Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power and Wednesday’s Word! I pray
that you will find something applicable for your faith journey and be able to
tie a couple of knots in your strand of faith!
Have you
ever put too much of something into something? Come with me to my morning
routine after waking up to a new day.
I sleepily
walked toward the coffee pot, turned it on, and waited for it to preheat the
water. I began to go through my ritual – grab for my multi-vitamin and a couple
of other supplements, get my glass of water, drink them down and chew on a
vitamin C for good measure. I reached into the refrigerator to grab my almond
butter, turned and felt it slipping out of my hand because the oil was
slithering out of the loose lid!! Ugh! I hate that slimy feeling!
My brain
turned into alert mode as I realized I needed to stir it all up so it was
edible, well almost edible. Have you ever noticed how bland almond butter can
be?
I reached
for my sea salt and tipped it into the almond butter. Out it came, kerplunk!
Instantly my heart skipped a beat as I realized what I had just done: Poured
way, way, way too much salt in my $14 brand new container of almond butter!
I think I
stared at it for a few moments in utter disbelief and the phrase “Oh, no you
didn’t” danced across my thoughts is a sort of smiling frustrated way. And then
as if in auto pilot, instead of scooping some of the salt out, I began to stir
it all in!
Strike 2!
As I stirred
rigorously for several minutes, I kept telling myself it will be fine; it will
not be too salty. I played stir and taste for ten minutes, finally coming to
the conclusion that I had indeed ruined this jar of almond butter. It was
grossly over-salted.
The next
thought went like this: But….there was/is a solution: I could go buy another
jar and combine them so as to not count it a total loss.
This
over-salting got me to thinking about life and how the same concept applies:
Less is truly more. How many times have I tried to make a point by saying too
much? Has that ever happened to you? I know several times I’ve had people come
up to me and virtually verbally vomit on me what must have been everything they
were thinking and I walk away wondering, what just happened? I think it’s
referred to as having no filter.
I think it
bothers me even more because I used to be just like that and I still catch
myself every now and again speaking without a filter, adding too much salt.
How many
times have I tried to resolve conflict but only wind up creating a bigger
conflict because I said too much…all because I wanted to be heard, to be
understood?
The same is
true when trying to share our faith with one who is skeptical or with a person
who is seeking for purpose and understanding in this life. He must increase and
I must decrease (John 3:30) so that our salt isn’t too salty! In Matthew 4,verse 13, Jesus tells us that we are the salt of the earth, in other words we
are not to blend in with everyone else. Christianity is one of many flavors of
the world but sometimes we can be over-zealous in our opinions and over-salt
our opinions!
Just like
adding too much salt in my almond butter requires that I add more almond
butter, so it is when we begin to over-salt a conversation with our opinions
and need to be heard. There is a solution: We must decrease so He can increase;
otherwise, we can get this word picture of saying so much that the one
listening literally covers their ears begging you to stop while chanting la-la,
la-la, la, la-la.
Whether it
be sharing our faith, or trying to resolve a conflict, and/or even in general
conversation, could it be that a little flavor will go a longer way and too
much will send them away? When I think of all the healings that Jesus
performed, He said little; in fact, His actions were the true salt!
Learning to
decrease that He may increase
Evinda
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