Tuesday’s Trench Truth

Thanks so much for joining us for #Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power and Trench Classes United. It’s time for Tuesday’s Trench truth, and now that we are in the trenches, it brings me such joy to share a powerful truth we are learning about. Grab your coffee and your strand of faith and let’s go tie some knots in our faith that it won’t come unraveled as more truths are revealed!

Do you have a hard time asking for what you want or need? This is one of the most common symptoms of identity problems, and it could be for whatever reason. I can say most emphatically that there’s a history behind this inability, and history needs to be studied so as not to be repeated!

Many of us have heard someone say, or have even said ourselves, that we are with the wrong person, or “I made a mistake,” or even more common is the mistake of blaming others for the lack of a voice in our significant relationships.

Let me let you in on a little secret: These inabilities didn’t just show up in your/their adult life! They have a genesis, a starting point if you will.  But the longer we go unaware of the root of the problem, the bigger the root. What happens with roots? Unattended roots encroach into the lives of others! This is what I deem relational insanity, but you can’t know what you don’t know!

Taking the time to figure out you so you can do you in any “us” that is significant to you is a big part of the equation of a healthy relationship!

Join me Thursday for a little assessment to determine if you have lost your voice in any of your relationships!
Evinda