Welcome to Coffee Hour @ Chicklit
Power and Trench Classes United. It’s Trench Truth day! Grab whatever you’re
having and come in for a quick moment of truth and encouragement for your soul.
I am thoroughly enjoying our current
trench class as we delve into finding our identity without chaos and confusion.
The information we are learning is so transforming…shocking in a gentle sort of
way, and incredibly freeing.
I shared on Tuesday about buying into
the lie that “sameness” means closeness, and trying to be like the one you’re
with is like becoming a human pretzel! And yet, there is to be an intertwining,
if you will, of ourselves with the ones we love – not just romantically,
either! J
What does that look like? I’m so glad
you asked! Here are some characteristics of healthy intertwining:
·
When
each person in the relationship – any relationship takes two people – ideally
stands alone with the privilege of the giving and taking to and from the other.
·
Each
person wanting, not demanding the other to care for them while realizing they
don’t have to; they get to!
·
Each
person choosing to care for the other and choosing to let them care for you…
This is
healthy interdependence! Oh, to be healthily entwined, perfectly
interdependent!
Love,
Evinda
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